Dad Mode Activated: Bryant Dunston

Dad Mode: Activated

Bryant Dunston, a two-time EuroLeague champion and one of the greatest defenders in the competition's history, brings his A-game to parenting—protecting, guiding, and setting up the perfect plays for his family.

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How have things changed since becoming a father?

Before I was a father, I thought only about the moment and maybe tomorrow. I didn’t really plan for the future or anything like that. Now I’m more responsible and I think about the future of my family. 

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What is the most valuable thing your kids have taught you?

My kids have taught me patience. It’s something that seems obvious but you forget that children come into the world knowing nothing. You have to have patience and allow them to learn and grow on their own and not give them the answers to every question. 

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What are the skills that are particular to professional athletes that you would like your (future, potential) children to adopt?

I want my children to learn to work hard, to function in a group, to be competitive but at the same time to be fair and also to learn to be gracious in failure and success. 

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From pregnancy through birth and the life of children we all know what mothers provide, give and what is that they have to cope with. But is there anything you think you bring to the table of parenting that your wife does not? What is your unique role in parenting?

From a parenting standpoint, I think I provide discipline and also a second voice. Whether that be to enforce the rules or to bring a different level of sensitivity or understanding when things get tense. Also, I can bring a fun dynamic and energy that’s different from their mom.  

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We know that times are changing and we are more conscious, more informed than previous generations. What are you doing differently from your parents?

When I was growing up, we weren’t allowed to speak our side. It was the parents’ way or the highway. I’m trying to listen to my children and understand what they think and the reasons why they do certain things. Even if I disagree and try to correct the behavior, understanding their motivations is important. 

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What is the one advice you would like to share with first time parents?

We read all these books. We watch all these videos. We make all these plans. You really have no idea if you’re doing it “right” because there isn’t a right way. Find what works for you and your child. Every child is unique. Just be present. And enjoy the moments because they fly by before you know it.